As a marriage counselor for the past twenty-five years, I have talked with many couples about their problems in interpersonal relationships. However, in the past few years, I have seen a specific pattern in the lives of the couples where the husband either wouldn’t talk with his wife or showed interest in someone other than his wife. As I studied the behavior and personalities of these couples, I found one underlying similarity. Thus, the research and counseling sessions have prompted me to write The Perfect Woman’s Flaw.I want to make it clear that both men and women have flaws in their personalities, but this research will be addressing a common flaw of many women.These pages have been written to identify the flaw and to suggest ways of overcoming this self-defeating behavior which alienates us in our relationships.